We like whining

We like whining too much and we get better at it.

So, a lot of times, our pain and suffering are self-imposed. We exaggerate our pain for whatever reason by staying up till late at night, not eating properly, and so on. We don’t want to go the appointed path even if we come across it, even if we see and agree! We take our time and play around with the idea.

Of course, this is not good for us. Obviously. But dealing with every single issue head-on would be too inhuman. We’re not machines here, okay? It’s great you don’t lower your standards but that does not mean you can’t do it in an empathetic manner.