Very small percentage of people have gotten closer to having figured out their lives. Most of the people you see are not exempt from confusion. Maybe we just keep bumping into people when they’re at a good place, or we assume.
When you are feeling low, you feel like there are so many things that you need to feel alright and secure. Like, on top of your efforts, you need everything to fall into place.
At any given time, you are one decision away from feeling good. And when you get several important things right, the rest either comes easily or start to mean less to you.