For certain people, how they do something matters more than what they do. Because most things are universal.
Generally speaking, we go through life in similar ways. We feel good, we feel bad, we feel humiliated, we feel big and small, we feel proud, joy, sadness, exhaustion, stress. We wanna have a nice home, we wanna experience things. We want satisfying relationships. We piss people off. We get mad.
You get the idea.
For the most part, while we’re doing these things, our intention shows. People can sense how much we’ve grown, if we’re intentional and so on.
Not only that, we also sense how we’re doing. And that affects how we’re gonna go on about other things.