Everybody’s an attention seeker. Of course, some are on the extreme and some are on the moderate end. But we are social creatures, after all; we want connection, want to be heard and seen.

So, just because you don’t want to turn heads just yet does not mean you are nurturing yourself fully. It might even mean something like you want people to pay attention to that state of yours, and that’s insecurity, or hypocrisy, or a lie, or an act; all in all, not the full truth.